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[quote=Anonymous]OP here to answer some questions I received.

My child is 11. He has no kids and doesn’t want to have any. His relationship with my kid beautiful. He plays an uncle role and it’s very fulfilling to see their dynamic. Both get a lot out of it and they verbally express that. The role that he plays there is exactly what I want, not looking for anything more. My child has an active father. It is possible he may not ever want to live with my child. I’m not sure I’ve never asked. If he didn’t I be ok with that but want to live together after my kid went to college.

He has never been married, and says he does not believe in it. He has cohabited twice with partners long-term (a decade). The last time the break up was extremely messy (similar to a bad divorce) and he is still negatively impacted by it.

If I knew that things would continue on exactly as they are forever, I would sign up for that. Ideally I would like to cohabitate at some point, but not being able to is not a deal breaker. I just want to eventually get to a place where I can say….this is my person, this is what we are doing. The more time  that goes on, the more attached we become. We spend a lot of quality time together and in a way have created a little family. I want to know that isn’t going anywhere.
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