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[quote=Anonymous][quote]An unhealthy home is much worse for the kids. PP, you sound like YOU cannot function without your husband's support. That's your problem. I feel sorry for you if you HAVE to stay with an abusive drunk. That says a lot about you and your self esteem.[/quote]

Who said I stayed with a drunk?

Anyway, you still sound like a young adult [u]with no children[/u] who has not lived a particularly long time, and who has not encountered real-life situations that demand compromise.

And so I'll help you out a little here:  a home where everything is very pleasant and civil and full of riches and provides 99.5% of everything a child needs is, actually, not "worse" for kids.  Kids do not give a shit if their parents are fucking properly [b]so long as[/b] their world is cheery and supportive.  That's the big 'if.'

The parents care, hell yes.  That's what this thread is about.  But no 10 year old is going to say, you know what?  My father is entitled to get hot sex initiated by both partners about 4-6 times per week.  I would gladly give up my pleasant, cheery, upper middle class life with parents who see me every single day and don't fight and don't snipe and are quite cordial to each other -- just so dad can have inspired sex 4-6 times per week.   That is in fact what I really want.   Shuttling between 2 homes with diminished lifestyle and not seeing one parent at every. single. holiday is what I prefer.   I want a step mom with 2 baby step sisters and I want my mom and me to sometimes live in a crappy apartment and leave my friends at my school.   I want my college funds to be cut by 66%.

That is not worse for me, no way!  What's worse for me is my dad not getting great sex 4-6 times per week.   That just kills me to think about that.[/quote]

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