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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I just want to hear from the people who whine and complain ALL the time.  Complain, complain complain.

Why do you do it?  Is there some kind of pay off?  Does it feel good?[/quote]

Realizing that felt came off as an attack.  I am honestly curious and trying to understand the motivations better.  Maybe I was raised in the other extreme, where[b] I was really not "allowed" to complain or have a voice[/b].  I either had to accept it or do something about it. So there is a big disconnect for me in understanding when others complain without doing anything to effect change.  In fact, there is absolutely zero desire to do so.  It's illogical to me. [/quote]
That's really sad, it goes to show this little window of treatment can set a kid on a path to be an intolerant impatient adult (not saying that op is but to some degree we mold the future's behavior)[/quote]

PP here.  Worse.  It breeds adult anger issues, and lack of coping mechanisms, at best. DH's mom used to let loose on him over nothing, because all her anger was pushed down inside her, eating her away. [/quote]

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