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[quote=Anonymous]If they plan to ever move close to you they need to do it now. It will be much harder as your moms dementia progresses and as they both age. But even now moving will be very difficult for them and could accelerate your mom’s decline into dementia. Moving cross country is hard for anyone, but especially for someone w dementia. She’ll likely feel even more disoriented and confused after a move like that than she will w the usual condition progression.

The hardest part is you can’t control what they do. Your dad ultimately will be the one to decide and you’ll have to deal w his decision whatever it may be. Do make sure your dad gives you or your sister POA now so that if he dies or develops serious health issues before your mom dies, you or your sister can make decisions wrt your mom and the estate.

Also, go visit and just enjoy your mom’s company. Go now/as soon as you can. take photos and especially videos and make voice recordings—-we really treasure the voice recordings and videos most bc my MIL who now is in advanced stage dementia, can no longer speak or interact w us (she hasn’t been able to speak for almost a year now and hadn’t been able to have a real conversation or interaction for about 2.5 years now. She was first diagnosed w dementia in 2017 and by 2021 she no longer had the same personality at all and by 2023 she could no longer speak. [/quote]

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