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[quote=Anonymous]back to the original point of the post I'm an adoptive mother, my child is 2yo . I expect my child to experience some anger, disappointment, frustrations and all that good stuff when she gets older, so I look at it as what can I do now to minimize the damage later. if you send the photos you can tell your child that you did your part. it's just pictures. I got a letter from the birth mother stating that she is hers and that they will be together again and it freaked me out, but a few minutes later I got myself together and reminded myself that the adoption is final. its difficult to figure out where the birth mother is coming from, people grieve in different ways at different times. most likely she's not coming from a bad place she might just want to see what a great choice she made[/quote]
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