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(Yes, my father did this to me and my siblings. It was so hurtful and damaging. I still can't understand why our mother didn't protect us.)[/quote]

I’m a different poster, but this was my childhood too, and I think OP should know that the day may come when her children are angrier at her for her failure to protect them than they are at the abusive father.

I certainly got to that point, and then my mother cried ‘poor me’ for over a decade of estrangement from her only daughter, who had finally gotten fed up with coming home and being bullied and watching her mother sit and watch and say nothing ‘to keep the peace’ - at the expense of her children’s mental health.

Get your ducks in a row, give him an ultimatum and leave him if he refuses to get serious help to change. And tell your kids, in front of their sperm donor, that his behavior toward them and you is unacceptable and that you all deserve his apology whether he gives it or not. The older ones are old enough to hear that.

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