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[quote=Anonymous]I think it's very strange and borderline obnoxious. I'd be irritated for sure. That said, I would not go passive-aggressive by refusing to share my photos. In addition to the "two wrongs don't make a right" cliche, it also doesn't resolve the problem long-term. It just sends a vague message that she may or may not receive. Instead, I'd have DH talk with her directly. Have him request the photos clearly and directly. Depending on her reaction, he should also be prepared to ask directly why she has been so reluctant to share them and other photos in the past. His mission is to get it all out on the table once and for all. And then have the two of them "problem-solve" a solution for how to handle it "next time." Above all else, have DH do it. She's his mother. This is his conversation. Just help him prepare to resolve it fully. [/quote]
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