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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's funny - I just posted somewhere else and admitted that I do it when I am exhausted from doing too much at home (on top of a full-time job).  It's not entirely manipulative; sometimes I am just dead tired from doing too much, and I need more help around the house, and DH listens.  If we get divorced someday, I don't think it will be over this issue.  [/quote]
See its confusing is that considered withholding because your tired. [/quote]

I agree and I wonder if your friends were talking about actually withholding the way you and I understand it or the way PP understands it. I think using sex as control is wrong and I'm curious how common that really is.[/quote]

Yes exactly and i didnt feed into it like tell me more lol. 
But it got me thinking is this something that goes down? Meaning more or less he goes on a punishment thats how it comes across to me. But is it relationship specific i guess idk!??
Not every husband out there is mature for his age that i do know!!!![/quote]

Can you go back and ask lol? I'm so curious! But yeah I know it happens because I've heard women give that advice and talk about how it works great for them. Only once in real life, once on DCUM, and a few times on instagram reels. I know people lie but I don't think they were all liars.

I can see how my husband thought I was being manipulative. I didn't want to be have sex because I was depressed and exhausted (sadly I didn't know this at the time so I was pretty ashamed of it when I realized my drive was low). I was depressed and exhausted because of things my husband was doing: taking on a bunch of extra work at his job to get ahead in his career and constantly criticizing the way I was doing things while he was gone. After a while of this I complained about it. So from his perspective, I stopped initiating when he started doing things I didn't like. Thank goodness we both understand so much more about sex and have a much better relationship, that was not a pleasant time![/quote]

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