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[quote=Anonymous]I think you should take the lead. This is not about who is right or wrong, this is about setting course for a better way next time.

Go to him now and say we need to get out and have some fun. Whatever happened this afternoon is not the best of either of us. Let't go out tonight and focus on having a good time. Say to him, that you had no idea how stressful this situation is at work and ask him if he wants to talk about it.

This is NOT about rewarding him for his behavior. Someone has to change the pattern and it can be you. You need to build the bridge back to him. Then after you have a few days space, talk about how he (and you) need to manage your stress better.

Last year I had the day you had. I am not sure where I found it the "yes", but he suggested we go try a new restaurant, i was not quite dressed for it (in my head) and I was still salty but i said yes. We sat at the bar and were close enough that we had to make up almost. The next day, we were hit with the worst crisis of our married lives and we felt like a team to deal with it. Since that day, I have reflected on what if I had dug in and not accepted his suggestion? Someone has to suggest it. Go suggest it to him.[/quote]

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