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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If they aren’t divorced yet I’d wait, no matter how long you’ve been together.

I met my now-husbands kids the first few times in neutral territory.  I ran into them at a restaurant and stayed and chatted for a few minutes, then built it up from there.  I was just dad’s friend for awhile.  Eased into the transition.  But he had the kids full time, his XW abandoned them all.  So there wasn’t a choice to just keep the meetings to off times.[/quote]

My GF has her kids full time too so she pushed pretty early for me to meet them.  She has teenage daughters.  I feel like I’m entering the lions den every time I go over there.  I thought it was way too early to meet them but basically deferred to her since they were her kids.  I figured she’d know best.  Turns out she didn’t. They are luke warm to me at best.  Once I started to get that vibe from them, I discussed with her and told her I wanted to give them their space.  I still occasionally go over there but verdicts out as to whether they’ll eventually warm up to me.

My kids are older and welcomed my GF with open arms.

Timing is tricky OP, but I think after 6 months it’d be ok to be introduced to them but I’d still not make it a regular thing.  [/quote]

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