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[quote=Anonymous]That does sound really rough, OP.  You can bring it up to your husband but he probably won’t change because he doesn’t want his family to think he’s changed or feels he’s above his origins or is raising his kids to look down on how he was raised.

Can you work on learning the language?  Ask your in-laws to teach you how to cook their way?  I wouldn’t worry too much about the kids’ hygiene tbh; kids usually love the horrifying (to adults) aspects of camping and won’t care if they take a weird shower once a week.  Are there public baths?  When I’ve visited places where bathing with a bucket was common, the public bathhouses were usually so much nicer than home options.

Failing all that, can you organize if so future trips are mostly you DH bringing the kids (maybe one at a time each time he visits) while you stay home?  Then DH and his family get special bonding time with each child and you don’t have to deal with roughing it for a month at a time.  As the kids get older this will make travel a bit easier and plausible excuses for why one of them can’t come (and you have to stay home) more realistic.[/quote]

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