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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So I've been flamed for this before, but after you've tried all the reasonable approaches (talking to the counselor, telling son to ignore, meeting with the principal, etc), its time to fight fire with fire.

And thats what you need to find out something about the girl, or her family.

Are her parents divorced?  Then tell your DS to say "shut the f%$ck up, Sally.  No wonder your Dad left you.  I can't stand the sound of your voice either"

Is her mom a little chubby, then its something like "Sally, is true that they are making your mom buy two seats to the musical, because she's so fat."

Or, is she's spreading rumors about DS playing with himself "Sally, you little f%$cking slut.  Just because you're daydreaming about my c@ck, doesnt mean I'm taking it out in class.  Try to keep stay in reality with the rest of us"

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Yup - do not hold back.  Hurt her feelings so badly that it is so firmly imprinted in her brain and she is so humiliated that she never says anything again.  And then for reinforcement, every time he sees her, make a comment in reference to that - ie, if he called her fat, the next day say, "uh oh, wide load approaching". If she has no boobs, say "here comes the itty bitty bitty committee!"  If she's dumb/gets bad grades, very slowly exaggeratedly reiterate a concept from the previous day, like, "okay, Larla, remember, you only multiply x when y happens, are you sure you understand?"  Or say something about her to one of his friends, point and laugh.[/quote]

That's correct.

It can't be just "Shut up, Larla"  or "Whatever Larla, nobody cares what you think."

It has to be so hurtful and humiliating.  Which is why the stuff about dad leaving, or mom being fat are perfect; it'll cause so much shame in this girl that she will be forced to be quiet[/quote]

Agree. This girl needs to be shamed. Nothing else is working. [/quote]

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