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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]She wants to “live her true authentic life?”

WTH does that mean? [/b]I would call out him- and her- on that statement alone.

Mature, decent people do not put their own selfish needs to “be authentic,” (aka do whatever the hell they want to do with no consequences) ahead of the best interests of people in their life, namely their spouses and children. She is proving that she is neither mature nor decent. She is also most likely a bit crazy.

Your DH needs to take a firm stand on this. [b]The innocent victim is their child. I hope you OP will do everything possible to be a positive influence in this child’s life. [/b]

With a mother like that, she’s going to need it. [/quote]

That statement is a loaded statement because she used it to explain why she was telling my husband about her feelings and also to explain something else that happened in her current marriage that has caused a rift in that marriage. Something I would rather not post here but has nothing to do with my hubby.

My step daughter and I have a good respectful relationship. She is a Wonderful human. She has a good relationship with her mom too, I don't want to undermine that.[/quote]

NP. This too shall pass. Probably around the time the ex finds someone else to bankroll her. I think your best bet is to play it as cool as you can while also not ceding any ground. Don't hide upstairs when she's there. If anything, invite her in and make tea and sit down with the two of them. You and your husband should be the mature adults here. The ex is not.[/quote]

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