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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I get it. He is depressed. But in a marriage you don’t get to throw your hands up in the air and say “this is the new normal and sex is no longer a part of our relationship and you just need to accept it”. That is basically telling your spouse that you don’t care about their needs and yours are the only ones that matter.

I agree you can’t force him. So you need to decide how important it is to you. And you need to decide if you are just convincing yourself you can deal with it or if it’s actually true. Because if you are convincing yourself and it’s not something you can actually accept you are going to resent him and the marriage will fail regardless.

To me, sex is absolutely vital in a marriage. And I’m a woman. I couldn’t do it. That being said, I would understand if he didn’t want to try PIV and we would still do other things but from what you have said he doesn’t want to do anything at all. He is not even willing to compromise. What does that tell you? Like I said, he is considering himself and only himself.[/quote]

When women have health issues that affect their libido they will blow up at their husbands for having the same line of thinking that you presented.[/quote]

And that’s totally understandable. It goes both ways.[/quote]

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