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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Absolutely not unless you get ownership of their home.[/quote] This has winning potential. You pay mortgage. You pay for maintenance. You also take DH over the coals for offering financial help without your permission. That’s a HUGE boundary violation. Work on that, but if you love him, don’t overlook whatever plan is best for your family. You buy the house. You move into the house and move them into the apartment. (Only if you genuinely like the house.) That will get them cash and help them downsize. If the house doesn’t work for you, look for other solutions. ****IF DH is contrite.*** My DH consults me whenever he spends over a few hundred. Your DH overstepped by a mile. If he disagrees, show him the thread. It’s almost unanimous. [/quote]
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