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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Woman here, I am only familiar w Tinder. But it asks you to state whether you are looking for short term, long term, unsure, etc. If I see short term, I assume they are interested in hooking up.

Also if I see a mans profile w shirtless pics, or even gym selfies, I assume he is trying to show me what Ill get when I get him naked, thus they are looking for a hookup.

Finally, the profile itself will say “not looking for anything serious” or something along those lines. One man listed his stats including height, weight, and that he is “well endowed”. I figured he was just looking for a hookup. One profile I saw said that he was “casually looking for something serious” which imho was a nice way of indicating that he wasnt just looking to hookup.

I am not looking for anything serious as I am currently going through a divorce and say in my profile something about how I am looking for someone to do fun stuff with when my kids are with their dad. Nothing about trying to share my life with anyone, nothing about “looking for one person to…”  Also, Id assume that since my profile states that I am separated most people realize that someone in this place in their life is not looking for something serious.[/quote]

As long as you're honest.  I find women/men going through divorces and on a dating site is an unmitigated disaster.   Time the time to do the work and heal.  Jumping in the sack with someone as you're separated is a terrible idea.  Have some accountability. [/quote]

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