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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hugs, OP. The frustration is real, and I could very easily see my own parents doing this. It's so hard to watch them make mistakes knowing that you will have to be the one to pick up the pieces.[/quote] Let them know one consequence is you may NOT be there to pick up pieces. People forget life happens. In my case I developed my own serious health issue and we had other family emergencies. My mother has the nerve to rage at me when I drew a line in the sand and made it clear my health and family I created will from now on come before her after spending close to a decade of catering too much tom my parents. She was livid, but she stopped firing people and learned to suck it up. I could not reason with her prior to that because she had lost that ability and the empathy, but when it came to her needs and hearing I would not guarantee I could be there, that she understand.[/quote]
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