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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]And I hate feeling this way. Exasperated dealing with someone in her 90s. Resent that I have to help her financially. She has made a lifetime of bad decisions and I feel like I am paying for them. Worst one? After my dad died, she stayed in their house for 15 years while her money drained. [/quote] You have every right to be angry and should not hate feeling that way. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. Her decisions have caused you great financial pain, and great emotional pain. Same situation here. If she’s still in the house refusing to sell, kill your financial support and force the sale. If she’s sold it, help her find a safe place to stay and go back to being just her daughter. People who say that the elderly should be able to stay in their homes while family financially supports the delusion are insane. If the elderly are financially able to, but it’s unsafe, you call in elderly care advocates.[/quote]
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