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[quote=Anonymous]Hi OP, What worked for me was DH and toddler taking a Gymboree, then Music Together class, just the 2 of them. DH liked having other dads to hang with and it was a more fun/structured way for him to enjoy the younger DD. While they did that, I had a standing "date" with older DD and would give her 2 choices of activities and let her pick one. When she tried to derail that, while out, we made a list of fun things, put them in a box and she would pick one. So she had input but was not in control. Getting out of the house helped a lot with changing the dynamics. My mom said to treat is as good practice for teen years. If you don't, I'd have a standing monthly or bimonthly date just for you and DH, have a standing sitter or join a babysitting co-op. It's important for that relationship to be nurtured and primary, it's the bedrock of the family. Hang in there! [/quote]
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