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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Have her payoff her credit card bill. You can celebrate her life and honor her death without a funeral. That bill is just going to get larger and larger and if some hidden asset is found they will go after it. Pay it off so there is no worry about mounting debt while she is alive. I know so many people who beautiful ways to honor the loved one without spending thousands of dollars. It's about the person, not how much you spend.[/quote] Her mother specifically said she wants a funeral. "Her wishes are for me to use the money for her funeral..." It's not about how much you spend, it's honoring the wishes of the person. In this case, a 95 year old has set aside money for her funeral - OP should honor that and do what is within the realm of possible with that amount of money. [/quote]
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