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Reply to "S/O How to know someone’s serious vs love bombing?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Serious: will spend a lot of time with you doing normal stuff. Love bombing: says he’d love to spend a lot of time with you but can’t seem to find the time.[/quote] Interesting take. But I think the latter you described is just word bombing. To me, love bombing is lots of big romantic gestures (whether or not they align with what you want or need) and flattery without substance, such as frequently sending dozens of flowers, love letters, gifts, reservations for expensive dinners all at the beginning that lead up to getting you into bed. Serious is intimate sharing, vulnerability (not necessarily neediness, but listening and revealing), interest in getting to know what excites you, what makes you happy/joyful, what annoys you, and what makes you frustrated. Wanting to spend any amount of time with you doing regular things like grocery shopping, a relaxed sport like hiking, golf, tennis…making each other laugh. [/quote]
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