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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Finish your homework and go to bed. And no more drinking!!![/quote]

I’m not sure if this is a slam but I’m 25 and a nurse. Just looking for honest input on what I should do to make this fair. I love my son and he comes first but I need to have my own freedom and independence in the same way as he does. I feel I have been fair with the boundaries and communicated very well.[/quote]

You sound like a child. Complaining about not going out on the biggest party nights of the year? (Who knew Thanksgiving Eve was a thing?). You both should be in therapy, separately and together, to learn how to communicate like adults and act like parents. And I firmly believe in parents retaining their own lives - I have traveled for fun since my kids were little and my husband does the same. I have an activity that takes up a good chunk of time but I think it's healthy for moms to have things outside of being moms (I also work full time). But you're handling this wrong. All you want to do is "win" but really you're losing and so is your kid. [/quote]

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