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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Without specifics OP, it might sound like you don't have a financial plan, for this. Do you? [b]Medicaid place for your Mom, even if far from you is what is available. Her Medicaid pays for her care. [/b]If this is not happening, and you are depleting your assets -- you don't have a plan for this, financially.[/quote]
OP said her mom does not qualify for medicaid because her social security check is too high.[/quote]

That is no5 how Medicaid works [/quote]

It can be how medicaid works in some states. OP may need to move her mom to a state or locale with better medicaid support for long-term care. and, of course, there need to be open beds. But first OP needs to get past the need for closure, or approval, because there is no way to deal with the vast pile of stuff that needs doing with an irresponsible and demanding parent if you are still looking for some sort of acceptance or praise. It's a thankless job. They'll hate you for doing what needs to be done. They don't understand "why you can't just...".

At the end of the day you have to do the best you can without bankrupting yourself or sacrificing yourself for the sake of someone who is 90+ years old and will never be able to appreciate it or reward you for it.

Or just visit her without testing or masking during peak covid and flu, it's what folks did to my grandpa.[/quote]

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