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[quote=Anonymous]Nursing home! I looked after an elderly relative for a few years before moving her into a supported independent living situation and then later, when she declined further, a skilled nursing facility. Turns out, the move out of "my hands" into the hands of the "pros" was the best thing for her -- and for me. She and I had many subsequent discussions about it. She and I agreed that there was simply no way I could have provided the level of care she needed at my home. Also, it freed up all my energy just to be the light hearted chatty family member - I wasn't probing her bed sores or taking her temperature, etc. Instead, when I visited, I was able to focus soley on being a cheerful, fun presence for her. She ended up being very content. Good luck OP![/quote]
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