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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m the scapegoat in my family. The golden child gets everyone to pay her bills for her, has a sob story that dominates every family dinner, and only keeps in touch with people who give her what she wants. I don’t contribute and I say no when asked, but I was the scapegoat before I did this because I’m not as dramatic so it’s easier to blame me for things. I stopped attending and now they blame the problems that they are having that I don’t know about on me and tell me about it when I visit later without the Drama Golden Child. I just ignore it as much as I can and live my life. I have less, but I have enough.[/quote] I'm the scapegoat and also the most successful b/c golden child had evertyhing handed to them. Not golden child in the classic sense, but golden child being perennially a damsel in distress and everyone else stepping in to keep them afloat[/quote]
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