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[quote=Anonymous]Assuming… each of you have a fully funded retirement account, your family has a joint emergency fund that could pay 6 months of bills. The best thing for us was 1 account that has “all the salaries” auto go there. We each get $1000/paycheck to our own accounts. We use our own accounts for non family stuff… vacations without family, my H likes to buy tools and such, my hair and gym Memberships and cars. Cars may seem to be “family” but my H likes sports cars so no they are not family. I pay for the Van which seems family but if it were a family decision it would be a maxi SUV and since it’s “my money” it’s my choice and I hate those huge cars. It’s nice to buy gifts from our own accounts so we don’t feel we’re buying ourselves a gift. This model limits discussions like can we really afford that car or do you really need a $1000 table saw. I visit my brother every year and that costs about $2000 after all is said and done and that’s how I like to spend my money. No discussion on cost.[/quote]
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