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[quote=Anonymous]He was controlling and critical of everything I said. I couldn’t walk into a room the right way, have the right facial expression, say the right thing, not say the wrong thing, speak or not speak the right amount, express the right amount of gratitude using the rights words, accept his gestures correctly, parent the right way in his presence. Everything I did was exasperating, incorrect, caused sighs and corrections. If I made one attempt to help him or declined anything he tried to do for me (even if I hadn’t asked and didn’t want it) it was an insult requiring contrition and apology. He would perseverate like a bulldog on Princess and the pea level perceived slights while hurling incredible invective, abuse, insults and obscenity at me in front of the kids and then blame me and sometimes the kids in front of them. He would not stop talking. He would tell me to get out of the house. I would have to leave the house, spend nights in hotels with my kids, leave trips. There was not one holiday he didn’t ruin. Anything that wasnt his plan or under his control he denigrated—my job, my friends, my family, my religion. He insulted my religion and ethnicity. He repeatedly physically hurt me, then said it did never happened. Nothing bad ever really happened he said. And it was all my fault.[/quote]

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