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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Here is the situation:  I worked at a large law firm.  I had a relationship with a partner that went beyond professional.  I felt I was not in a position to say no, and I met for dates over several months.  I agreed to an out-of-court settlement with the Law Firm.  My partner and I no longer work there.  My H knew nothing about any of it, as it all occurred while he was on extended TDY.   He found the settlement documents on our shared household computer.  H said he is more upset about my hiding the whole settlement than the fact that I might have had an affair.  He says if I was indeed sexually abused at work, why wouldn't I tell him, and further that I hid the settlement from him is a breach of trust that cannot be repaired.

I have always felt with his constant travel that H is never there to take care of me.  Now, I need him when I have a back injury and he won't help. [/quote]

This sounds so fake.  You lied to him multiple times.  Why would you hide the dates, settlement, etc.  He's right.

And, if you have tricare, take yourself to the ER and get your back looked at.  Done.  And, if you are tricare, you go on base, not in network so this makes zero sense.

Being deployed isn't exactly travel.[/quote]

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