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[quote=Anonymous]I personally would not. You describe the husband as an “overgrown baby” but she also is acting like a child, expecting others to swoop in and save her from her own decisions. Once you go down that path, where will it end? She needs to grow up. The time to start is now. I’d help her find legal aid services. I would not give money to someone who cannot manage money or manage to arrange their own divorce. Once I gave money to someone to help them have a deposit for a subsidized apartment. A month later, they came back asking for more money because the apartment arrangement had been delayed but in the meantime they spent they money on other things. Once you agree, through paying for her divorce, that you are a source of funds for her needs, it will never end and may poison your relationship. Unless you are super wealthy you need to save for your own retirement and your kids college funds.[/quote]
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