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[quote=Anonymous]Both of us never had a divorce in our family and therefore not a lot of discussions on how we would overcome differences. Now we are divorced. The abuse involved multiple types of infidelity including financial so so much for not caring about status. 
 There were a lot of cultural differences that hid issues I should have considered as problems if I wasn't excusing them because of our socioeconomic differences. A lot of lying and betrayal from his family. They didn't really trust people from money and it ended up causing issues. Not that they wouldn't have existed anyway in the marriage because he had his own issues on top of their behaviors, but the crazy would have been lessened. I think if you don't give excuses for behavior and love each other even if you both end up poor it will work out better. Go into it eyes wide open.  I just thought he also wanted the same lifestyle I had been brought up in because he deceived me this way saying this was his goal. Turns out he just wanted me to provide for it while he turned to addictive and deceptive behaviors. His family which had been different but kind was also involved In the big lie just to have him marry into money and helping him steal money as well. It was a mess. Even when you try to account for everything though you never know. I could have had other issues with a different man. Will never know. [/quote]

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