Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Adult Children
Reply to "What do you do when your kids pursue their passions and are now broke as adults?"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous]I probably wouldn't have clicked on this thread six months ago, but here we are as a family. We've had some health changes over the last few months and now I'm a lot more focused on our DCs being able to support themselves as opposed to being subsidized (e.g., money for house down payment, annual gift, etc). For example, one DC is very interested in being a school teacher, most likely at an independent HS. They like kids, they were inspired by certain teachers, and DC seems to think it might mesh with what are some of their attention challenges, etc. And heck, we need good teachers! But now our finances have taken a bit of a hit and may for awhile. We may not have the surplus to do this as well as ensure that our care needs are covered w/o being a burden to our DCs. Do we discuss with this DC now, while in college? Leave it and see how it manifests? DC probably doesn't have the skills or the span for consulting/financing/law so don't want them to go down a road where they might be miserable. [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics