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[quote=Anonymous]OP, start copying financial records, ASAP. Bank and retirement accounts, etc. I'd take the high road and not have the kids learn from you. He will likely introduce them to AP and they will figure it out. Don't put them in the middle yourself or make them confidants in any way. Focus on money and do a few lawyer consults and pick the one you click with most. Get the ball rolling. A therapist is a must, having been in your shoes. You don't want to burn out social support. Pay for the heavy lifting. I also found a Meet Up group of women going through divorce. Was a good source of info and support too and just getting out now and again was helpful. No idea if group is still going, but, if so, I'd check it out. You will get through this, hang in there. [/quote]
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