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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wouldn’t get too specific with your kids. [b]Your kids will then try to confront their Dad, which will lead to him giving the laundry list of his reasons why he cheated, which puts the kids right in the middle of this. Their instincts will be to try to negotiate between the two of you, and that is really damaging.[/b] A therapist can help you craft a good script.[/quote] Not necessarily, especially if the separation is a done deal. "Your father cheated on me with another woman, and I think that's a deal-breaker in a marriage, but we both love you very much. Just because we're going to live apart doesn't mean we're can't look after you as before." Questions, questions, questions. Reiterate gist of sentence in another way. Rinse, Repeat.[/quote]
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