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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Did he abuse you? And does your sister know? [/quote]

Did you not read the above post? Sounds like he strangled her!  Held her neck that’s abuse!  And put her between a mattress and box spring and jumped on the bed, that is abuse to me!

OP I am so sorry.  You need to take care of yourself and your mental
Health.  If you aren’t up for a call send flowers or a card and just say thinking of you or something simple.  Don’t erase what these two did to you as a child just because he died.

I was forced to do this go to a funeral to someone who was horrible for me as a child.  I’m upset I was pressured by others to go.  I spoke my truth years later and am happy I did.  You do what is best for you OP.  [/quote]

You weren’t there. OP’s words are less than certain. You are reading into it. I want OP to confirm.[/quote]
Op here. Yes, they both abused me. I wrote about 2 incidents out of many. [/quote]

Has she ever apologized? Was this known to your parents and if so, did they address? Anyway, I agree with the above advice to drop some platitudes in her ears during a brief phone call and consider your duty done. Don’t bother with a note. It takes more time to find a card, compose a message, address, stamp than it does to nake a brief phone call. And you should put in the least amount of effort you can get away with.[/quote]

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