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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]To answer your Q, OP, yes, a group can be very supportive of most of its members and simultaneously be toxic to certain members and objectively toxic to outside observers. You can easily think of examples (extremely egregious - Nazis, KKK). Kelly was wronged by people in your group, to varying degrees. People who lie, people who spread the lies, people who don’t call out the lying and stand up for the person being wronged. You and other members may feel all warm and fuzzy about your group but objectively you all suck, to varying degrees. Thank goodness Kelly had the sense or was able follow the advice someone gave her to cut ties with your group. I don’t understand why you are still a part of it, frankly. Doesn’t the constant knowledge of how terrible these people are bug you every time you interact? It would drive me crazy if I had to be around them, knowing what they are. I certainly wouldn’t do it if I had a choice. [/quote] +1[/quote]
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