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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Agree about fit women in their 40’s

Disagree about men 28-32. Most at this age are one of three types:

1) Losers still clinging to the single undergrad years lifestyle with lots of booze and video gaming and non-commital dating.

2) new dads of toddlers who are sweet and devoted but have let themselves go physically because of being a dad taking precedent over staying fit.

3) career obsessed and super driven, with no time for a serious relationship. Lots of mid-level military officers or junior law partners in this category. They have time to **** you a few times a month, but that’s all they can spare you.

[b]#2’s are the best, if you’re lucky enough to be married to one and they don’t let themselves go too far out of shape before 40, because once the kid(s) are over 10-12, these guys tend to try and get fit again, and usually do. Then they’re a prize[/b]. If you didn’t marry one and you’re still single, there’s plenty like this who divorce because their marriages fall apart because the wife has let herself go.

But the whole guys 28-32 thing is just dead wrong. Let them get into their 40’s or early 50’s. If they’re still in shape then…. Yum. [/quote]

This is my DH! He is very attractive, but got a bit soft in the middle during the baby/toddler years when we were sleep deprived and surviving. He’s now mid-40s and our kids are elementary age, and he’s in even better shape than when we met. Not gym rat type, but he’s fit and eats healthy and has mostly given up alcohol (which honestly I think is a huge help with the aging process). He’s also fortunate to still have a full head of hair and good skin.

Thankfully I haven’t let myself go either so I don’t anticipate him being back on the market. :)

But I totally agree that a fit mid-40s dad is hotter than a 28 year old.[/quote]

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