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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]wow, super strong reactions here!

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How many times have you had an adult conversation with your DH?
I am assuming you are in MD since it became legal this year .... so it's been only a grand total of FIVE MONTHs .... how frequently are we talking?
Do you drink alcohol?
Have you talk with him about vape or edibles?
Is he not concerned about the child with asthma?
What is his reason that "going outside doesn't work for him" and what solutions have you suggested? Heat lamp?

Personally, I think you are correct to have concern about indoor smoking due to having a child with asthma.  But [b]use of weed in general, esp in a state with legal recreational use, is not the hill you should divorce on[/b].  Everyone jumping to divorce is legit looney-tunes.[/quote]

You missed that OP said, very clearly, that due to the smoking he is now frequently late for work and does not engage with his children. I suspect, since you seem to want to defend weed smoking, that you'll insist those things don't have anything to do with weed, and he might do them anyway even if he didn't smoke, but I'll take OP's word for it -- she's there, you aren't -- that he wasn't doing those things before he started smoking heavily. He's at risk at work. Do you not see any of that in her original post? Go back and read it if you didn't.

I am not in the "divorce immediately" camp here (yet), but I do think he has a substance problem because he uses a substance and it is causing problems.

Also, I see what you did there with the one line, "Do you drink alcohol?" If OP says yes, you'll jump to the idea of equating weed use with drinking, the "why is it OK to use alcohol and not weed?" stuff. Well, if she drinks to the point she's sleeping in, late to work, not doing what needs to be done with the kids, then she would have a drinking problem requiring help and possibly serious marital consequences. Since he is using weed to the point he's sleeping in, late to work, not doing what needs to be done with the kids, why doesn't HE have to admit he's got a weed problem and needs help? [/quote]

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