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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I knew 2 women who were smart/accomplished and genuinely attractive facially, but neither thought they needed to work to be fit or well put together. They were both about 15-20 lbs heavier than they should have been to appeal to men, and they dressed in a casual, dumpy manner. They believed these things shouldn’t be important to men, and couldn’t understand why the men they were interested in wouldn’t reciprocate. Looking at social media they both appear to be single in their early 40’s despite not wanting that for themselves. [/quote]

Misogyny. Misogynist.

Crawl back into your spider hole.  [/quote]

I am the person who wrote this, a woman btw, and I don’t see how it is misogyny whatsoever. Women have expectations for the men we get involved with (job, hygiene, social skills, fitness level etc.), and no one calls that misandry! 
 
And to address the other posters saying 15-20 lbs over typical male preference is no big deal - perhaps you are right. Perhaps it was more the haughty attitude that men’s preferences shouldn’t matter while refusing to compromise their own.

I just found it unfortunate because both of these women could have found a very good partner with a slight attitude/behavior adjustment. 
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