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[quote=Anonymous]OP, your parents are (or were) adults. They made adult bargains in their relationships, including with one another, that aren’t really yours to understand. If this parent was in fact a raging narcissist and habitual liar across many categories of action, there is likely plenty of material other than this reflecting it for you to reflect upon today. But it’s also possible that this is just what happened and you’re never going to understand it any better than you do now. People—even people without personality disorders—dissociate themselves from actions that are ego-dystonic, and this parent may have been doing that, relentlessly, for decades.[/quote]
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