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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Spouse should address this with his parents and sibling BEFORE you make the trip. If husband, SIL, and grandparents aren't willing to be part of the solution, don't go[/quote] In my experience the DH assures the wife the issue is taken care of, then you show up, usually when it is inconvenient to leave, and the behavior is the same if not worse. When you discuss the situation with DH later it was a "miscommunication". People who host think it is ok to bully guests. They cooked all day and spent the money on the food, or they planned and paid for the venue, so they think they get to make the rules. I've posted similar issues about my own in-laws and responses from this forum are what clued me into the "whoever hosts picks the rules" unwritten rule. [/quote]
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