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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I want to hear from others who feel this way...and maybe others that find it so devastating when their DH cheats.  I feel so bad bc I see the hurt it causes some people, but I just don't think that my reaction would be all that intense.  I also don't really know why I feel this way, so I'm hoping that if I hear others maybe it'll help me figure it out.  [/quote]

OP, I'm with you on this and I often think about it and even tell DH sometimes (although he thinks I'm joking).[b] I really wouldn't care if he has sex with someone else. If he falls in love, I'd be hurt. But sex, m'eh. [/b][/quote]

That is what someone else wrote - in general, men are upset by the sex part, women by their husband falling in love with another woman.  I do think the sex part would hurt many women, especially if it was not a one-not stand but an ongoing practice.  For me, a one-night stand would not be automatic divorce fodder but it would definitely impact the trust that I have and might lead to other problems in the marriage that would eventually cause a split.[/quote]

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