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Reply to "Tell me about your experience if you divorced while both kids were in HS"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I know you don’t want to focus much on custody, but I’m a lawyer in both DC and MD and I just want to say it is true that, given their ages, the preferences of your kids will be given a lot of weight. You might have to share legal custody, or might not given all the abuse. But, to the degree it impacts your decision, I think it’s good to understand that you’d have a real chance of getting primary physical custody. [/quote] OP here, thank you for this, PP. It is emotional, directed at me for the most part. My daughter is sick of it, though I'm not sure it would rise to the level of sole custody, and that would actually make the situation SO much worse-- he wants to be around us all of the time and this would put him over the edge. What I most certainly don't want is to have the situation play out where he accuses me of turning our daughter against him. I have an attorney, and I will ask about a 'nesting' situation until they are out of HS. I'd rather shuffle than have my kids do it. [/quote]
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