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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sounds like your husband isn’t doing enough. You say you’re doing the bulk  of it. [/quote]

My husband works out of state of occasion and was basically gone for the first 2.5 years of our sons life. I co slept with him because I was exhausted. At 4 years old, my son sleeps in his bed half the time and half the night in ours. There's always a 1-3AM wakeup. My husband is the one who gets up with him most nights and will help with the bulk of sick day care.

I still do the weekly housecleaning, majority of cooking and cleanup. My husband regularly does laundry but doesn't put it away. I am responsible for school pick up/drop off because of his work hours. He works 7-3 and I work 9-5. He does do a good share, but it's usually 70/30 or 60/40.[/quote]

You need to up his share of work.  He could be doing so much after 3pm. You need to shift it to 50/50.  Write every single daily and weekly chore and divide them. Tell him you think you otherwise are going to have a nervous breakdown and have to be checked in to the hospital.  Make him really worried about being 100% responsible. [/quote]

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