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[quote=Anonymous]This is OP. But when is a reasonable timeframe because if I didn’t ask, I’m 100% confident it would never be addressed. We could have a fire in our kitchen and DH would say… ehh we can fix it later. And this was a situation with our kid, it can’t really wait 6 months.

I’ve tried other ways like email or text but things never move forward. If the toilet needs fixing, do I wait months for his input? If I just handle it, then he’ll say I make decisions on my own. But then the problem is, we have a very unbalanced load because of his anxiety and wanting to just push everything away.

I’m working on me but I would not ever treat him that way. If he comes to me with something important (even if I feel it’s not). I’m going to dismiss him. A PP said, it’s immature. We are adults and should be able to respectfully communicate. That was my starting point.

I should not have to be responsible for figuring out why this is so difficult or triggering for him. He needs to be able to communicate his needs.[/quote]

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