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[quote=Anonymous]Does he have a solution beyond "oh no, I can't"?? I guess I'm asking, if you sit down and talk about how you find this division of labor to be unfair, what's his response? Does he recognize that it is unfair and is he, in theory, willing to commit to change? That's a much better starting point than him not caring about the problem. And push. Push hard -- this is you fighting for your marriage. Recognize that it's not just ADHD here. It's that he's been socialized, like most men, to expect women to pick up the slack for him.[/quote]
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