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[quote=Anonymous]If you weren’t moving, would you see a future with him? If you’re just not compatible long term, regardless of the move, I think it’s important to be very clear about that so he knows there’s no chance you’ll change your mind. It is super convenient for you to enjoy the last few months of having a boyfriend, if you broke up now it wouldn’t be worth finding someone else to do couples type activities with. But it’s not really fair to him if he wants to settle down with someone to waste his time. But maybe he will be happy to have a few more months of fun with you, as long as he knows that will be it!

If the only reason you would break up is th e move, maybe he would move with you? I ended up giving up a career move in my mid 20s for a guy I had been with for about a year. For me it was definitely the right call - we’ve been happy married with kids for 15 years. In my case, I was crazy about him and it wasn’t really a close call - I didn’t particularly want to live in the city with the job offer, and we both saw a future together. I had tried long distance with someone else in the past and it was a disaster, so that was never an option for me. [/quote]

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