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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m on the other side of this as the sibling who doesn’t help at all. My sibs know it’s because I have a terrible relationship with him and can’tnspare the money. I frankly don’t think my dad deserves any support, so I feel zero moral responsibility about how my sibs help him and not me. [/quote] +1 My parents had a very definite "golden child." Now the golden child is the only one that lives local to them (I'm about a 6 hour plane ride away, other sibling about a 3 hour plane ride) and responsible for everything-this was by my parents plan, though. Decades before their decline (and before other sibling and I moved away) they listed golden child as the POA for financial, for medical and he is the trustee of their trust, executor of their will, etc. After decades of being treated like crap while golden child was treated like royalty, other sibling and I are done.[/quote]
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