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[quote=Anonymous]Of course I haven't used that term outloud. I feel as though we are both underperforming as spouses though ... both of us in terms of communication, me in terms of love I have for him, him in terms anxiety and career. We both do fine with kids and household chores. The house runs very smoothly, and our kids are doing fine, we are a good team in that respect. Since we both underperform in the communication area so good (or even bad) communication is obviously a struggle. We both avoid conflict and hard topics. I feel as though my husband avoid lots of topics with me, even neutral/good ones. I'm being coached, actually, to help with this, but it's like tiny little baby steps to help me figure out what needs to be said, how to say it, when to communicate, and what I want and need from communication. [/quote]
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