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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Confused. It's incredibly rare for him to catch it and never have an outbreak. Are you insinuating he lied about having HSV? Because an exposure isn't a big deal if it's in the past. It's not like HIV.[/quote]

I understand that HSV2 is not a huge deal. I’m annoyed and sorta mad that he knew his longterm partner had it and he didn’t at least mention it before we were intimate even if the risk is low. I am furious that when I found out from someone else and asked him if he knew his ex was positive, he feigned surprise and denied knowing at all instead of being like “yeah, I knew, but I went to planned parenthood to get tested and they said they don’t even test unless someone has symptoms so I didn’t. I didn’t think it was a big enough deal to tell you.” Crappy, but I’m not sure it’s a grave sin not to tell a casual sexual partner about past exposure with no symptoms.

He perpetuated the lie for months over multiple conversations about it. I had a gut feeling he was lying, and said for my peace of mind I wanted to listen in on a conversation with his ex about it. He tried to keep up the charade for a bit and did some real shady sh** to cover it up before I called him out and the whole truth came out.

We live in a small city. I found out when a male friend of mine came across her profile on a dating app where she has it stated in her profile.

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What ? People now put up their STD tests on dating profiles ??? I  call this thread a BS and fake [/quote]

A guy I met on Hinge was also very upfront about it. He'd had a previous partner lie, so he led with it upfront.[/quote]

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