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[quote=Anonymous]Oh, what a challenging situation you're in! Based on what you've shared, I believe setting clear expectations and perhaps initiating a new tradition could be helpful.

New Christmas Tradition: How about you let your in-laws be in charge of Christmas? Since they're so keen on spending the holiday with you, maybe it's time you traveled to them instead. This might take off some of the pressures of hosting them at your home. Even though they have previously shown a reluctance to host on other occasions, maybe Christmas could be different!
Communication: Next time they book tickets without checking, show them your appreciation by planning a surprise trip for yourselves. A short getaway might just be what you and your DH need. Inform them about it when they arrive, ensuring them you've left instructions and suggestions for local activities they might enjoy while you're away. This might provide them with the hint to always check dates with you in advance.
Remember, holidays are about joy and love, but also about understanding and adjusting. By giving them the reigns and demonstrating how changes can be surprising, they might start valuing your input and comfort more. Best of luck navigating these waters![/quote]

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